
No spin, just clarity
Dickson Tumuramye writes that life's challenges, whether small or deeply painful, can cloud judgment and pull people toward hopelessness, fear, and emotional exhaustion if left unchecked. He argues that positive thinking isn't denial of problems but a deliberate choice to face them with hope, resilience, and reflection, asking constructive questions rather than surrendering to blame and self-pity. He warns that negative thinking drains motivation and damages relationships, and that children raised in critical or hopeless environments often absorb those same patterns. Because children learn more from what they observe than what they're told, he calls on parents to model calm, hopeful responses to difficulty, hold open conversations that build children's confidence, and root the family's resilience in faith and prayer, citing several scripture references. His central message: a positive mindset doesn't remove life's challenges, but it equips people, and the children watching them, to face those challenges with courage and hope.
Dickson Tumuramye argues that as children head back to school, parents should watch for a pattern of escalating, unreasonable demands, excessive pocket money, expensive gadgets, pressure to keep up with peers or social media trends. He traces this behaviour to peer pressure, social media influence, and homes without boundaries, and warns that uncontrolled pocket money in particular can expose students to alcohol, drugs, betting, and harmful friendships. He cautions against parenting through guilt or competing with other families, and urges parents to teach the difference between needs and wants, set firm but loving boundaries, model gratitude and responsibility, stay alert to sudden behavioural changes, and build strong emotional relationships with their children. His central message: real love isn't measured by how much a parent gives, but by the boundaries, values, and character they instill.